Your Best Us, Part 2: “Have Serious Fun”
June 11, 2023

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Message Review

Main Point | The best way to protect your marriage is to enjoy your marriage. Fun in your marriage isn’t an extra - it’s essential to become the Best Us.  

Scripture References | Proverbs 5:15-19 

Questions      

  • This Week’s Sermon was about how the best way to protect your marriage is to enjoy your marriage. What were your initial thoughts or takeaways from the message?  

  • Focus Passage Review: Song of Solomon 4:5-5:1 Read this passage 2-3 times then talk through the following points.)  

    • Observation: What do you notice in this passage?  What words or phrases stick out to you? 

    • Interpretation: What was the author's original intent in this passage?  What main point(s) was the author trying to communicate? 

    • Application: What is a takeaway from this passage?  How can/should you apply that? What next step is Jesus inviting you to take? 

    • Questions: What questions/tensions do you have from this passage? 

  • What are some of the things that get in the way of you and your spouse having fun together? Why do you think these have gotten in the way of having fun?  

  • Pastor Matt said, “Fun in a marriage isn’t extra, it’s essential.” Why do think this statement is true?  

  • Why, do you think, a dysfunctional sexual relationship is not the cause of marital problems but a manifestation of the problems?  

  • Fun, doesn’t require perfection, fun requires participation. Why do we think that fun has to be perfect and pricy to be worth it? 

  • Why do you think it is essential to schedule time for fun with your spouse?  

  • Why do you think dating your spouse is vital to enjoying your marriage? What do you all like to do together?  

  • Do you think that scheduled Daily dialogue would help your marriage? Why or why not?  

Break off as couples for the final section. (If applicable to your group)  

  • Spend time and schedule your date night including the who, what, when, where, and how. Report back to the group what you decided to do.  

  • Spend time and schedule sex including the who, what, when, where, and how. Keep this one between you and your spouse.  

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