What is Depression?
Whether from outward circumstances, inward struggles, or seemingly no reason at all, many of us go through seasons of depression.
Depression is a deep and prolonged sense of sadness, hopelessness, and despair that can affect a person's emotions, thoughts, and physical well-being. It can manifest in various ways, impacting our ability to function normally in daily life. It can even lead people to a loss of interest in the activities that were once enjoyable.
We often try to find hope under the weight of our hurt, but it can be difficult to find life, crawl out of that pit, and connect with God again. It's important to know that there is hope in overcoming depression, but it will be a journey that requires patience, persistence, and the support of others. Seeking help and implementing key practices will be important steps toward finding freedom and healing.
Below are principles and practices that can provide guidance and support for those seeking freedom from depression.
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Drawing near to God through prayer, worship, and meditating on Scripture can provide comfort and strength. Try and make time to get some alone time to spend with God to do this every single day.
Prayer: Prayer is a powerful and intimate connection with God that can provide comfort, strength, and peace, especially in depression. The writer of Psalm 55:22 says to “cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.” Prayer is a powerful tool that allows us to surrender our troubles to God.
Journaling: Journaling your thoughts, struggles, and emotions can help you process what we are going through. As part of your daily routine, you are encouraged to make journaling a part of your rhythm. Journaling can also be a form of prayer.
Worship: In the book of Psalms, King David often expressed his emotions and struggles through music and song.
First, worship music can be a source of comfort and strength for you during times of depression. Choosing to listen to worship music that speaks to your heart and uplifts your spirit will help shift your focus from despair to hope.
Second: The lyrics and melodies can remind you of God's love, faithfulness, and the promise of comfort in difficult times. It can also provide a sense of peace and connection to God, which can be a powerful source of encouragement.
Lastly, sometimes we don’t have the physical or mental energy to muster up words. Worship music can do this for you in these moments, singing words that are meaningful and impactful to your thinking.
Meditating on Scripture: Finding hope in the promises of God and the assurance of His faithfulness can bring comfort during times of depression. Romans 15:13 speaks to the hope and peace that God provides to those who trust in Him. Paul says in Romans 15:13, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”
When you maintain the routine of spending time with God reading His truth, principles, and promise through His Word, you can begin to experience hope and life.
There are times when you may not feel like reading, but even reading one Psalm per day can help you begin to gain traction and momentum in the coming days ahead.
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Taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being is important in the journey towards freedom from depression. Here are some effective ways to incorporate self-care into your routine:
Get Rest: Ensure you get enough sleep each night. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep to support overall health and resilience. Your mind, body, and soul heals while you are a sleep. And allow yourself to take naps when needed.
Eat Healthy: We are what we eat. Eat a balanced diet with a variety of nutrient-rich foods. Stay hydrated, and minimize the consumption of processed foods, excessive caffeine, sugar and alcohol.
Get exercise: Engage in physical activity that you enjoy, whether it's walking, jogging, lifting, or any other form of exercise. Exercise contributes to both physical and mental well-being.
Establish a Routine: Create a daily routine that includes designated time for self-care activities. Consistency helps establish habits. Good habits lead to good health.
Schedule Solitude: Find regular times of silence and solitude removed from distractions and others so that you can reenergize. Jesus himself sought moments of solitude and rest, as mentioned in Mark 6:31.
Set Boundaries: Learn to say no when necessary. Establish clear boundaries to avoid overcommitting and feeling overwhelmed. This includes tasks, responsibilities, and even relationships.
Take Breaks: Schedule short breaks throughout the day to step away from work or responsibilities. Use this time to relax, stretch, breathe, or engage in activities you enjoy.
Cultivate Hobbies: Dedicate time to activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it's reading, painting, gardening, or playing a musical instrument, hobbies contribute to a healthy and enjoyable life.
Maintain Friendships: Nurture meaningful relationships. Spend time with friends and family you enjoy, or join social groups that align with your interests.
Unplug from Technology: Set aside designated times to disconnect from electronic devices. Limit screen time, especially before bedtime, to promote better sleep.
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The first thing people naturally want to do when feeling depressed is to isolate from others, but staying connected is key. Depression can make you feel like you are alone and make you want to be alone. But social isolation only makes depression worse.
People were created and have a need to be around others and when that need is denied, it increases the sense of loneliness and depression.
Although seemingly difficult, fight the urge to avoid people and reach out for community. Be open with your struggle with no matter how it feels. Admitting that you are depressed to others is the first step toward your healing.
Also, engaging with others and even seeking counsel from wise and trusted friends can offer encouragement and understanding. The writer of Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 emphasizes the value of companionship and support during difficult times when he says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
You were not meant to live in isolation. Stay connected.
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Seeking guidance from trained professionals, such as counselors or therapists, can provide valuable support in addressing depression. The writers of Scripture highlight the wisdom found in seeking counsel from others.
If you are dealing with severe depression that persists, it may be time to consider seeking the help of a friend, family member, mental health professional, counselor, or therapist. Seeking help is definitely not a sign of weakness, but a wise step towards healing.
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